Reflection #1
Me and my friend were attending the same dance classes for almost a year. We both love it, so we talked about it everyday, showed each other cool videos that we found on youtube or rented studio space together just for fun. It changed when she suddenly had some kind of a breakdown. She started telling me that she would never be good enough and everybody is so much better than her. She used to enjoy dance, but she decided not to do it anymore. It made me notice how easily people give up things they love just, because they think they're not enough. I understand why it happens, we all have moments like that, however, I don't think quitting is a good option.
If you dance just for pleasure, you're absolutely right - ignore failures and just keep going. But if you do it because you hope to be the best, to win, to achieve something, then failure can be very demotivating.
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